Planning, planning, planning! It can lead to stress, especially if you are a perfectionist, like me. Yes, I confess I am a perfectionist. It doesn't mean I'm perfect, but that I like to get every little detail chiseled down to the point.
But little-by-little over the years, I have also learned to let some things go and to smile at imperfection. This certainly doesn't mean that I accept careless work. It just means that I no longer freak out over circumstances that are beyond my control. Save yourself some sanity, brides. And make that your way of approaching not just your wedding day, but the rest of your marriage.
Keep calm, and marry on!